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Originally Posted by Cocoa's Momma  Yes, I do realize that but, I get defensive and hurt when people try to discourage a relationship they know nothing about. Ya know? I just asked if anyone else had a similar situation and if so how did they compromise. |
I understand how you feel, I too was exactly like that (and sometimes still am) I get offended very quickly but I have come to realize that most of the YT members are really great people and do not say things to get people upset intentionally. See I didnt answer the post right away because you asked if anyone had been in your shoes and what did they do, and I have never been in the situation you are in now. I will say that I dont think you boyfriend is a horrible person at all! some people are just not animal lovers, are they wrong bad people? ofcourse not! you do however need to find a solution to the problem. Its better to address the issue now rather than later. Good luck Im sure it will all work out!