Take a deep breath. Soon grandma will be gone (in more ways than one). I have a 81 year old dad. He drives me up the wall and onto the roof. He thinks he is still capable of making decisions. Doesn't matter how many times I try to explain things to him, I'm still an idiot. I have gritted my teeth so much, I will be on baby food soon. I have to keep reminding myself, that I too will be like that some day. Hopefully my kids will shoot me before then.