I know how you feel. My and my dad have been on the outs off and on since mother died. He is old and sick but I refuse to let him talk mean to me and talk bad about my mother. I haven't seen him in almost a month because everytime I go over he starts. For my own sanity I have had to stay away, not that I don't love him and don't care, my son keeps me informed, I'm just dealing with grief and I don't need that kind of treatment right now.
You know where your heart lies and that will help you deal with your dad. |