as the Mom of a soon to be college graduate(that I did pay for tho), I would ask too, just to try and protect her and steer her right, but if they are "blabbers" I would simply tell them that it is "enough" to support my family. I didnt have the greatest relationship with my inlaws in our earlier years, but the good news is, it gets better.... at least mine did...
good luck! If its really great, just SHOUT it to the world first... haha
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