Yeah, I know he doesn't mean anything by it, that's how hubby is. I just don't feel comfortable because that's how I was raised. They tend to take credit for things they don't do. Hubby has to pay back his college loans, but his dad has a bumper sticker that says "My son and my money goes to..." and then it says hubbys school. We just came from two separate types of families. I was always taught not to ask such questions and what not, but they didn't teach hubby and his sister much manners. I guess it would also be different if when his parents called they wouldn't just call to ask about the money and they would ask about my son as well.