I would say give it time. I have 4 cats. Only one is declawed. Gracie loved them from day one, but then, she was a puppy. They all seem to know their pecking order. Gracie is best friends with the two males, and could care less about the two females. I think it is because the male cats like to play and are more social than my females.
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