We are on the other end of this. My husband has children with his ex-wife and we are suppose to pay 400 a month for child support. We pay half of it a month. She takes what we send and uses it to buy drugs and support her many boyfriends. The other half of what we are suppose to send we use to buy clothes and food for the kids and take it over there. Of course this makes her madder than hell cause she cant use it for anything else but the kids (we take the tags off the clothes and scratch over the UPC lables on the food with a black marker). We bought all the kids school clothes a few years ago before we realized how bad off she was with drugs and she returned ALL of them to the stores for money and then called my mother-in-law crying cause they didnt have any school clothes (they have to wear uniforms and they are very expensive!!)!!! |