He's a beautiful boy... and has such kind eyes! I think you'd be a blessing to him even if all you were able to do is get him out of that kill shelter!
These types of shelters don't normally have a "get to know you" period before a final adoption... but getting him out of there as quickly as you can, bringing him home and seeing how he will adjust over a few days - may give you a bit better insight as to whether you will be able to provide him with the love, care and life-long home he needs.
Worse case scenario - it won't be a good fit and you'll be in the position of placing him in another home - but even at that, it will be a special hand-picked family at your discression rather than the poor baby ending what may have been a very good life - at the hands of the shelter folks with a (and I'm sorry to be so graphic here) needle in his belly.
At best, you'll have found yourself and your girl a true friend and companion... while saving a life in the process!
Out of town for a couple of days?? Well, if he settles in nicely right off the bat - no worries... he can stay home with whatever arrangements you have for a caregiver for the other furbabies while you're away...
If he has some issues at first and you have legitimate concerns of leaving him alone so early on - - go with a bit of expense and kennel him for a couple of days.... no matter how stressful the transition in the beginning may have to be, the ultimate consideration is being able to provide for him in the long run and getting him out of that kill shelter now!!
As for de-clawing ... I don't have much personal experience as the only two cats we have are male strays who have put on about 10 lbs each since they began dining on our doorstep each evening and spending their days basking in the sun in our lounge chairs! ha!
But below is a link to some "pro's and con's of de-clawing" - - which states, of course, that the issue is somewhat controversial (which, as I see it, goes right along with altering the natural physical state of ANY living thing) - and that there are several options one may consider before making the decision to de-claw....
As well, the article states that
while there is some pain and discomfort with de-clawing - IT IS NO MORE THAN WHEN A CAT IS SPAYED OR NEUTERED!
Most cats can recover from declawing without complications and despite some myths, cats that undergo this procedure are not more prone to biting.
While declawing will always remain a very controversial topic, it is a
personal decision that should be left up to the owner and the vet who performs the surgery. Good luck to you - keep us posted as to whether you are able to bring this beautiful boy home and make him a part of your family!!
