Happy Anniversary to you and your hubby!
And a very Happy Birthday to Bella!
I know exactly how you feel. My Coco's birthday is the same as mine
Well last year hubby and a friend of mine arranged a surprise birthday party for me - at her house - I was so upset that I couldn't be with Coco, and THEN this year hubby arranged for the two of us to go away for a few days for my birthday - so once again I was not with Coco on OUR special day!
Come hell or high water I will be with her next year.
P.S. Everyone thought I was ungrateful 'cause I didn't want to be away from Coco.
What do you think!!. I guess we both did survive lol.