Babies driving mom NUTS!!!!! HELP! Hi all,
I have 2 lovely little boys (furbabies) they are litermates, brothers and have not been seperated since birth. They are my babies and I adore them sooooo very much, but lately, OOOHHHHHH MMMAAANNNN!!!!
They are sooooooo JEALOUS of each other!! They beg for my attention and they want me to pet them with BOTH hands, I am not allowed to pet them both using one hand on each, they paw at the hand that is petting the other one. They BOTH want my lap, they BOTH want the SAME toy, the same spot on the bed next to me, the same EVERYTHING!!!! I can't take it, I don't know how to fix it!!! I throw a toy to my little guy and my bigger guy SCARES the crap out of the little guy to get the to the toy first! I feel bad bc the little guy never played with toys and suddenly he started to and his brother totally takes that away from him!!! Oh and they don't let me do ANYTHING at all, blow dry my hair, nope. Cook, nope. Do dishes, nope. Go to the freakin bathroom, NOPE!! They fight to Both get on my lap while Im peeing!!!!
What can I do to stop this jealousy and constant need for attention? Im desperate here!!! I love them to bits & pieces but I cannot stop doing housework and hygiene bc they whine, cry, beg, jump and fight to be in my arms or on my lap all the time!!!
__________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz |