Oh my, im going to be 31 next month, Ive done a lot in my lifetime, and I have NO desire for children right now and Im not married! I think 21 is WAY too young to get married, but I do wonder if that is a common attitude in my part of the country than in other parts of the country! I don't know, most of my friends are not married and we are all in our late 20s, early 30s... some have just started getting married in the last 2 years! There is no hurry really! enjoy life!!