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Originally Posted by spruitt7  I've been stressing so much. I just turned 21 in April. I've noticed that most people my age are already married. Some even have kids. Now I don't think theres anything wrong with getting married right out of high school, but its not for me. I've also noticed that alot of women start having kids around 24-28. Honestly, for me thats too early. Ughhh... so my problem is that I want to actually graduate from college and enjoy my career before I actually start having kids, but I'm not sure if its good or healthy to have children after 30. Plus, to make it even worse... My fiance/boyfriend wants me to have children around 26. Every time this subject comes up, it seems like hes just pressuring me. Gahhh... two years ago, I said "I'm NEVER having children" Lol.. Life is so confusing.  |
Don't stress!!!! Your young and have everything going for you. Not everyone your age is jumping into marriage. Our Son is 22, in college, he's a Med Student. He's had the same girlfriend for the past 3 years. Yep, they talk about getting married and having children, but not until after Graduation.
He wants to have a married life before he has children.
That's what my husband and I did. We have been together going on 27 years, we have 5 wonderful children 23, 22, 21, 17 & 16. And the best part is, we are still best friends after all these years. Don't do what others tell you, or you see them doing, instead do what your heart tells you, and you will be just fine.
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