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Originally Posted by spruitt7  I've been stressing so much. I just turned 21 in April. I've noticed that most people my age are already married. Some even have kids. Now I don't think theres anything wrong with getting married right out of high school, but its not for me. I've also noticed that alot of women start having kids around 24-28. Honestly, for me thats too early. Ughhh... so my problem is that I want to actually graduate from college and enjoy my career before I actually start having kids, but I'm not sure if its good or healthy to have children after 30. Plus, to make it even worse... My fiance/boyfriend wants me to have children around 26. Every time this subject comes up, it seems like hes just pressuring me. Gahhh... two years ago, I said "I'm NEVER having children" Lol.. Life is so confusing.  |
Thirty is defiantly not to late.....If it where me I'd
wait....Once it's been done there's no going back, life as you know it will cease to exist
...
No more sleeping in with your man on a Sauturday morning....no more nice hair, make up or nails, you'll look like one of those women you see in the cereal aisle with their hair up in a pony tail,sweats on and a screaming toddler hanging on your leg wanting a box of CoCo Krispies...no more peeing in private...no more taking a bubble bath alone....no more clean clothes, yours will have a sucker stuck on your butt and a liquefied cookie smeared on your shirt...no more reading the paper or a book...no more friends, they'll disappear...no more having a drink to yourself, yours will have slobber swirling in it...No more just grabbing your keys and heading out the door on the spur of the moment... no more nice dinners out, yours will consist of ordered pizza....no more cute, sexy teddys, yours will be flannel.....no more life as you know it...
If the above sounds like heaven then go for it, if not I'd wait
