My random thoughts for the day thanks to my cranky husband who is working night shift and did not get the weekend off.( nice pay check this week
more shopping for me!)
#1. My husband said that I was very vain almost to a point of Narcissism
. I asked him why he would say that and he said that every time he say's someone is pretty, I will say that I am much more beautiful then she is because I know I am not ugly! and He thinks that I believe it myself!! Come on like I know that some stars are very beautiful!! So I went to look up what it is to be Narcissist. I do not have all the problems that fit the definition and even if I did what is so wrong with thinking you are good looking or a good person who deserves things?It's not really hurting anyone to think that way, they push for people to have a good self esteem right? If others do not agree that you are all it ,then good for them, they are intitled to their own opinion! I just don't see the big deal. Sorry to any one who has this for real I am not putting you down in no way. Nor am I making fun of mental illness. I just am having trouble with why my husband thinks I have the problem!
#2 You know the saying to have one's cake and eat it too.......well why could you not? Did you eat a piece or the whole darn thing? Because you can still have the cake if you just took a slice and ate it!! I really do not like that saying at all. And for some reason My husband has used this on our kids a few time and our ten year old was a bit confused, I don't blam the poor boy!