I am so sorry you are so angry....it is the worst feeling to be angry!!! But you know what? What is done is done!!!! There is nothing you can do now. You can beeeeeetch & beeeeeetch about it (as I would want to do too) but he cannot change what he has done. My husband and I have a rule that keeps us out of lots of fights.....once one of us does something that makes the other mad or upset we then promise that we will not do whatever we did to upset the other again. My husband said to me one day when we were fighting, "I have no idea where this fight it going, its not like we are gonna split up over this, we know we are always going to be together so why stand here and fight & say ugly stuff that we will have to apologize for later?" For some reason that really hit home to me. From that day foward .....we just don't fight!!! We do not always agree but we just don't fight. This really works for us and I can honestly say that we NEVER fight.
Perhaps you just need to go talk to your DH and explain why you are so upset and make him promise to never do something like this again.
Kiss and make up....you will feel so much better!!!!
