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Originally Posted by spruitt7  I've been stressing so much. I just turned 21 in April. I've noticed that most people my age are already married. Some even have kids. Now I don't think theres anything wrong with getting married right out of high school, but its not for me. I've also noticed that alot of women start having kids around 24-28. Honestly, for me thats too early. Ughhh... so my problem is that I want to actually graduate from college and enjoy my career before I actually start having kids, but I'm not sure if its good or healthy to have children after 30. Plus, to make it even worse... My fiance/boyfriend wants me to have children around 26. Every time this subject comes up, it seems like hes just pressuring me. Gahhh... two years ago, I said "I'm NEVER having children" Lol.. Life is so confusing.  |
Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. I was 31 when I got married and waiting until then was the best decision I every made. I really enjoyed my twenties and did not regret anything I did or did not do. Party up and worry about marriage and kids later. I still do not have any kids of my own yet, and that if just fine with me. You are just starting your life on your on, so don't rush things, just enjoy life as it is.