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Originally Posted by spruitt7  I've been stressing so much. I just turned 21 in April. I've noticed that most people my age are already married. Some even have kids. Now I don't think theres anything wrong with getting married right out of high school, but its not for me. I've also noticed that alot of women start having kids around 24-28. Honestly, for me thats too early. Ughhh... so my problem is that I want to actually graduate from college and enjoy my career before I actually start having kids, but I'm not sure if its good or healthy to have children after 30. Plus, to make it even worse... My fiance/boyfriend wants me to have children around 26. Every time this subject comes up, it seems like hes just pressuring me. Gahhh... two years ago, I said "I'm NEVER having children" Lol.. Life is so confusing.  |
enjoy your time now. after you have kids, you will see that most of your time and money are devoted to them.
I see nothing wrong with waiting till your 30 plus.
Tell your b/f to enjoy the time you 2 have alone now cause as soon as kids come into the picture, your quite time is over! lol