I agree it's selfish. I think it's unfair to the child for them to grow up and their parents are so old that they cannot do things with them, or the parents to pass while the child is in his/her 20s. I am 20 now and my parents are in their early 50s, my grandma is 70 and if one of them were to pass i seriously think i would lose it and wouldn't know what to do. It would be great for them to still be here to see my future kids. Idk how old Nick Nolte's wife is but then again in hollywood a lot of famous men have kids with, marry wayyyy younger women so i guess the mom will be young still. I wanna have kids in a couple of yrs, cause once im in my 40s-50s i want to enjoy myself with my husband and take looong vacations
