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Originally Posted by crystalsmom  And that is why I have said that anyone that would go to these lengths and want a child so much would certainly be a wonderful mother. Like you said you are still young enough after you have the child to possibly marry. I consider you one of the smartest people on this site so I know it is well thought out. Best Wishes with your decision. |
Aww, thanks for such a nice compliment. My comment wasn't directed at you, or anyone else just my opinion on the issue. I've had many arguements with myself on this very issue about bringing a child into the world on purpose without a father. And then one day I realized that no one said he/she wouldn't have a father. Just because a single woman has a child doesn't mean she can't get married, it happens every day. That made me feel better but I still want to wait just a bit longer because it is a pretty big decision.