my sister is complaining of the exact same thing. she is 20 and her man is 21 or 23 i think. he works for his dad and is branching out, owns his own large home he built in the country and sarah moved in just under a year ago. sarah is the city type, likes to hang out, party and stuff...she does work 10 hours a day 6 days a week most of the time and drives a long distance to and from work and to visit us. but brian (the bf) relaxes and unwinds by playing with his trucks and helping his buddies with their trucks and cars. sarah gets jealous and starts fights and agrue about it. i did to when i was dating my husband, men wants breaks, mental breaks from us i think sometimes they need male bonding time, sometimes they even talk about relationship problems together. and when you (not saying you are hunny) (im young too) call them and and in their opinion nag them it only makes it worse. Guys just like hanging out and do guy things, they usually arent like us and what to be around all the time. also
if you act like your cool with them hanging out and you get something else to do, it makes you more desirable. shoot after you've been married a while you want them to go hang out with friends sometimes, that way you can enjoy each other even more when they are home. everyone needs there space from time to time and it doesnt mean he wants to leave you, or not be with you he is just being a man.
oh i didnt finish about sarah and brian - he says he loves her so much (to my husband) and he really does put up with a lot of crap from her (i think she carries a lot of baggage from a past bf) but that he like playing with his truck, its something he enjoys and relaxes doing it, and he likes when she hangs out there and he likes when she isnt there, it doesnt mean he doesnt want to be with her or doesnt love her anymore
good luck!! |