I am so sorry that you were taken advantage of. I'm pretty sure other members have found out she uses another name besides Joy- I hope you are getting informative PMs.
I'll look through some of my old ones and see if I can come up with anything for you.
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"If you have men who will exclude any of God’s creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow men." — St. Francis of Assisi, 1181-1226