i can relate to you being scared i put mine off for 3 yrs and went and got 3 diff opinions but all 3 doctors told me the same.i ended up having mine 2 yrs ago and i have to tell you its the best thing i ever did i wished i wouldnt have put it off for so long.the surgery it self wasnt bad at all i was only in the hospital one day and i walked out feeling great.if you trust your doc and he has a good rep you will be fine and im sure you will be happy once its over with i sure was.so good luck hang in there.please keep us posted after you have it done.