In this case, you are looking for the best home for your little guy. many breeders will not let someone have one of their babies if they feel it would not be the best situation for the puppy. You have to ask yourself what would be best for the puppy, If the women you are suppossed to meet tonight wasn't that interested, maybe the man will be a better home. This little guy needs to go to the best forever home as soon as possible, his young life has been upset too much already. I wish you the best in your decision.