I've had two breast reductions, so I totally relate
The first surgeon didn't listen to me and left me still huge
So I waited a few years and did it again, with a better surgeon this time. I have scars, yes, but no one but my hubby will see them, and he thinks they're awesome
Sometimes insurance will pay for the surgery, if it's causing you physical pain (back, neck, rashes or infections under the boobies) It can't hurt to try to get it approved if they're making you so miserable. I'm finally a "normal" size, a C cup, yay!!! I had to pay for them, but I would do it again in a heartbeat
If you start to investigate doing the surgery, go to
http://www.breasthealthonline.org
The women there are phenomenal, and they can help you