I think most mother's can relate to what you are feeling today.
Overwelmed! They should have responsibilities. It seems they
have been riding free. Make your charts and let them earn their
allowance. There is nothing wrong with children pulling their own
weight around the house. It's important that they feel they are
part of a family team. They might be mad to start but it's their
responsiblity as well to help out and do chores.
Sit down and have a family discussion. Tell them how your feeling.
You might be surprised to find out they understand if you talk and
not wait until your ready to explode from all the work.
Good luck to you, |