Sounds to me like you are being a good responsible mother which is so much harder than just giving in. Stick to your guns and your kids will thank you for it one day.
My kids grew up with the understanding that as a parent I was required to provide....
Food -- pinto beans, cornbread and coleslaw with a glass of cold white milk makes a nice balanced meal
Clothing -- Goodwill and Salvation as well as Walmart have some nice clothes -- so don't complain about your clothing allowance
Shelter -- means a roof over your head -- running water and electricity are a bonus
Education -- YOU WILL go to school
I was not a perfect mother, I made a lot of mistakes, but I did try very hard to instill a sense of value and work ethics. No meant NO!!!! And if I said no you'd better not ask again OR go to daddy. Parenting is an on-going education. You have to adapt and adjust to each kid every day. |