Oh do I hear you! my daughter is going on 12 this month and you know sometimes I just dont get it! My husband and I take care of everything here, cooking cleaning etc so we figured its time she helps also...I was still doing her bed! well we made the same changes and at first she had a hard time adjusting too. Rolling her eyes, stomping away, huffing and puffing etc. I put an end to that ASAP because that is disrespectful and now...she doesnt need to be told what to do she just does it. It gets better

believe me. My 5 and 6 year old have chores as well. Some might think they are too young but I dont think so lol. my 5 yr old is sooooo neat she will be the first one with her bed done in the morning, and she does it right LOL.