i got kayaredee's PM....... and now i understand...... the thing was dexters mom was writing when she was Pissed off (she had a right to be, what was said was awful) and i couldnt for the life of me make heads or tails of what was going on..... I totally understand now though and i am so sorry that they said that!!!, i agree that they should get booted! they were really cold and insensitive
sorry dexters mom