I would like to say that since I've been back to YT, the vast majority of members are tactful as well as
uber-helpful. Although no one has been anything but those things to me, I have had to cringe a few times on behalf of some unsuspecting poster being ambushed with a sniper rifle filled with nasty-bullets. While there are occasionally times and places for heated emotion-filled "debates", I have always told my children growing up that, in most scenarios in which they would find themselves, if they want to be taken seriously, they must present their opinion with tact and grace. If they offend someone during their message, they will find that their equisite wise passionate message will fall on deaf (and hurt) ears.
Can someone just post all the good points you have put together here into a sticky as required reading every few months??
And let me add a few exclamation points with an "I Love YT!!!!!"