i think this site is wonderful and the admin are excellent at keeping up (i didnt even see the offensive message and i am on here A LOT).... but..... i also know that i am on a tight budget as well and if i had to pay to be here, i would just have to enjoy my baby by myself...... i couldnt make ryhme or reason out of what was said between puppylove or dexters mom but i think i might be glad i missed it