Graleyne, I hope you read these posts and take them to heart, we are women confirming your correct instincts...you probably felt the same way but by trying to be "nice" you felt it was wrong to turn her "friendship" away....don't second guess yourself, just because nothing has happened YET doesn't mean you have no reason to stop this so called "friendship" with this woman....she had a relationship with your husband, there's a history of good times...DH is probably denying any old warm and fuzzies for her, but under the right circumstances they can be reignited....
When you and your DH are gong through real life i.e. bills, in laws, a stopped up toilet, and just bickering between you two, Airhead will be right there with a shoulder to b**ch and moan on, with her "Poor baby, she just doesn't understand you like I do's.'...Don't open that door, it would be a big mistake...Your DH should understand this and back you up...After all which relationship is most important to him,keeping his wife happy and respecting her view and feelings or fighting to maintain Airheads presence? ..I guess you'll find out soon...
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