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Originally Posted by Graleyne

I am just not taking this whole thing with DH's ex as well as I'd like to be.

Now she has told DH's friend, E, (who she was dating) that they should only be friends. E, of course, is continuing to act like her boyfriend and jump everytime she bats her eyelashes.

Maybe I am just insecure with myself right now and that is probably a good 90% of the problem.

I was nothing but just absolutely nice to her while she was here. Even though when she smiled and battled her eyelashes at DH and told him she remembered how he liked his eggs I wanted to deck her. I didn't. Instead I smiled and laughed and told her he doesn't get his special eggs anymore.

It's just that even though she has supposedly broken up with E, she is still around (not really around DH unless we are around E) and I just plain don't want her to be.

I'm afraid if I don't go 1) that gives her a chance to sink her claws into DH, 2) I don't get to have a good time with E whom I genuinely love like a brother and enjoy being around, and 3) it makes me look like I really am jealous.

Whether its my own insecurities or her ditzy laugh and poor pitiful dumb little me act, as hard as I am trying I just don't like the girl. I really don't.

It just bothers me because honestly I am the type who normally gets along well with everyone. I don't like the fact that I don't like her.

So we are all supposed to go to Six Flags this weekend and I just do not want to have to put up with her. Seriously she is the type who will probably fake a faint or something so DH and E have to rush to her aid.

I swear if my ear didn't hurt I'd bang my head on the desk for a little while.

Your good because quite frankly the brooklyn girl in me would have shoved them special eggs up her nose. How dare she say something like that. Honestly DH should see what she is doing which is trying to goad you on. Men are so damn dense at times that it infuriates me to think about it.

I would have told her the eggs weren't that special and that is why he doesn't eat them anymore. AAAAh. Hon I feel for you because that is sort of a no win situation.

Honestly don't let her get to you. You would be playing right into her hands with that. Just remember she is a pig for essentially dating what is two friends. That is just a plain nasty tramp.

What your feeling is not insecurity it's that womans intuition chiming in there...so listen to it.