I agree, you should sit with your hubby and let him know you feel very uncomfortable. Explain to him that you are willing to meet him half way and you did spend time with her but now you feel its a bit excessive. Im sure he will understand. Just by that comment she made about his eggs shows shes immature and wants to get on your nerves, and you should tell your hubby exactly that. That was rude and very disrespectful in my opinion. sorry your feeling this way, its a tough spot to be in