OMG Brenda why didnt you say anything to me? My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. I know exactly how you feel!!! I know I'm in NJ but I'm just a phone call away if you need to talk. You were there for me when I went through this with my grandmother. It sucks, it always happens to the best ones. Just spend all the time with her and be there for her. Please know that I'm only a phone call away and if I have to...I'll be on a

and be there!!!!