i really appreciate all of the advice. i think we will try the feeding thing...where we feed the other dogs first...and when they are done eating, she can eat. we'll see if that helps any. we will also do it when playing with toys. hold her back and not let her chase after the balls while the other 2 are...and then when it is her turn, she is free to play fetch. but make her watch the others play first...then her
it's like raising a child