Originally Posted by Chelsey  I cant, and wont tell you what to do, listen to your heart, i can only tell you my experience.
When we got our first little girl, i knew that i one day would want a little sister for her, when she was 5 months old, i knew, that if i wanted to go ahead with a second, i better not wait too long.
My husband, and i discussed it, night after night, so we decided to do a search, we found another little girl when our first one was 5 months old.
The day we brought our second baby home, i thought i had made the biggest mistake ever, i felt sad, to see my girl sad, i felt like i failed her somehow, and as silly as it sounds, got the puppy blues, i cried so much, my husband, and a friend spoke to me, assured me, that everything will be fine.
My first girl, hated her little sister, she didnt even want to look at her.
About 10 days later, the 2 of them were playing together, that was the day i knew, there was no turning back.
It was a lot of work, having 2 babies, but when i look back now, i smile, they are such a blessing, they do everything together.
It's nice to have them both the same age, it really is.
Good luck! |