V, I have missed you.
As to Cheri, maybe you can put her in a room that she likes with a gate (they have the gates that attach to the doorway, and it swings open so that you can go through). It will probably help her in being secure. I know Conner likes to be secluded when we go out - he has his bed, favorite toys and I put one of my night shirts that I have worn in his bed.
As to Tessa, maybe a piece of your husband's clothing in her bed will ease her pain.
You do not have a gap in your resume. You were self-employed. That takes discipline and a lot of qualities that employers are looking for. Do not seek a job until you are ready.
Get well, get strong.
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