[Sharonandtink]

I think that school is just getting to him. Be patient and see what happens when school is over. I know that it seems like it is going to be forever, but it is just a little bit longer and then he is all done. See if anything changes. But you really need to get him alone and UNDISTACTED by everything and talk to him about what you are feeling. I would just focus on your wonderful son and let him do his own thing right now until you are able to talk to him. Talk to him about setting up a night where he can't do homework or work and get a babysitter and just sit down and talk to him about the issues that you feel is bothering you. Make a list becuase when it comes to that point you will forget everything in the heat of the moment. Stay calm and talk about it. He mostlikely has his head in other places thinking about what he needs to do to take care of his family in the future to realize that he is ruining it here and now. Men are like that. Be patient and I think things will turn out fine.