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I cannot explain why....and Im not taking these guys side AT ALL I just think every case is an individual case.....and all aspects need to be looked at, if the father is not in custody I am sure the police have a reason why he is not. I wonder if like say, you start a new anti-depressant, and it makes you hyper, or forgetful almost like a.d.d. (which I have BAD) if thats causes these things to happen? I dont know I just (as a parent) cannot imagine causing my own child's death so maybe in my mind I convince myself NOONE could hurt their kids intentionally. I know they do, it happens everyday but i guess my brain tries to sugar coat it to make the world seem like a nicer place. I also tell myself ALOT bad things happen to good people.

I would really be interested in seeing how these stories play out. After the SHOCK of it all and the wow factor wears off we rarely get to hear what really happened, if there were other factors, medications, illnesses etc., that played a role. Either way...it's VERY saddening and my heart goes out to the family members and that poor little girl that lost her life.