Marci - I think added a list to your GE info sheet is fine.....in fact, many of us already do that........afterall, there is a section on the sign up just for this purpose (I believe).
I don't think anyone would think anything of it if you were to put what was not needed or what Layla can not have. I think most do it for rawhide and greenies...why not add toys or toys made in China, etc.
I wouldn't be bothered by it at all. In fact, I will more than likely add to my list of can't haves on our sign up sheet this time too.
I think most GE buddies read and try to go off our lists as good as they can (I hope anyway).....
I know when I worked at our local university, we would do GE (like Boo-Budies for Halloween, and well, something for each holiday). Everyone who partcipates fills out a list (much like we do) and go off that list. I guess that is our getting to know our GE buddy list....so maybe I shouldn't have posted my post above?
Anyway, check out this post on the topic.....
http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=95260
GE's are fun and I thank ADMIN so much for allowing us to do fun things like this.