here here!!! I totally understand you! My ex of almost 10 years broke up with me and we were engaged and owned a house! My dogs are my babies! They are better than any man Ive met so far! HAHAHA (I am not knocking men, just ones I meet!)
Im sorry he did that over the phone though! You know if he is low enough to cheat you cant expect him to be decent enough to give you a face to face breakup! aaahhhh I guess I could say the most dreaded quote "thank god you didnt marry him" (insert a punch to my face here) haha People told me that all the time when my ex & I split and it used to make me feel violent!
If you want to talk Im an admin at a breakup website called
www.brokenheartedgirl.com if you want to come! The community is wonderful and supportive!