Well, it seems like he has been pretty open and honest with you about it, especially if you have met the girl. And you know that since he is pretty young, you would need to be there for driving, etc, and could chaperone. Maybe you should just sit down with your husband and discuss some rules and limitations, like they can't be alone together, or whatever makes you comfortable, and then talk to your boy about it. If you get to a point when you don't feel like you can trust what he is doing, then talk to him about what makes you uncomfortable. Encouraging him to be open with you and allowing things as long as you both can be upfront and honest is going to greatly improve your relationship! You sound like a wonderful mama! |