oh, i long for the single days sometimes. It was so nice to be able to make decisions on my own...and just to be able to drive without a "back seat driver". i could go on and on and on.
but then again...I remember how lonely I was for those 4 years. I longed for someone to ask me how my day was when I got home. I longed to have someone take care of me when I was sick.
I have those things now...but the "how was your day" is usually followed up with "well, this is how you could make it better", or, "this is what you did wrong". and when I'm sick...yes, he will bring me what he thinks will make me feel better...and I get my head rubbed when I have a headache...but I still don't get rest. I am still bothered to no end when I try and stay in bed when I am sick "Honey, where is this..." "Honey....Maggie did this..."
sheesh...it's late and I'm in a cranky mood...maybe I shouldn't respond to threads like this...I get on a kick where i convince myself I should not have gotten married LOL
but I do understand where you are coming from. I clearly remember those days. I hope you find exactly what you are looking for. My only advice...DON'T SETTLE. keep going until you find EXACTLY what you are looking for
