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  ive been through it and to me , it was just like a death.. its a horrible feeling.just stand by her and comfort her because she is going to need you more
 than ever...   thank god i had my family when i was
 going through it.. its devestating....  make sure your on top of her everyday,
 its very important..    she will be hurting now, but in a few months, she will
 be just fine and she will have the best life
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