[Janie616]

Originally Posted by Kathryn_V

Are you serious? I have to start with that last coment first.

I sure as heck hope that we are teaching our yound girls that that marriage should come before "naked pictures"! PLEASE say that all you moms out there are on the same page with me. I did not say that .... you said your daughter said that Vanessa was not even married. I was wondering what that had to do with it. Today's mores (and yes, the word is MORES) http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/mores
mo·res pl.n. The accepted traditional customs and usages of a particular social group.
Moral attitudes.
Manners; ways.
allow this behaviour ... not that I agree with it .... but things are different today and that is why 50% of all marriages end in divorce.

I just think its sad when stars of their favorite "clean" shows turn around and do something so awful. Part of being a star in that position is living up to the role. Kids look up to you. I totally agree with you. And kudos to you for monitoring your daughter's internet access..

Again.... If "Todays Morles" are allowing for living together... You may as well be saying that its ok to shack up and bed down with whomever. I do not set the standards, but statistics would prove that may be the case unfortunately ... This kind of thinking is what makes SINGLE MOMS and boosts teem preg's. I for one will NOT be teaching my daughter that this is even remotely ok.

Sorry... But that is this concerned mothers two cents.

I did not say this was right. I just said that it was what IS happening in today's world ... sorry if you took offense at this. It was not intended to tell you about raising your child. I think it is sad also.
In my field I deal with a lot of these travesties .... Hollywood is known for its grotesque characters ....
Just my opinion ... not an attack ...