I too had this dilemna or a similar one when I was in grade school and the DARE program was all the rage...The particular DARE officer told me that I should let him know if any adult had tried to give me alcohol or drugs... naturally I ratted out my priest
...Needless to say I got really worried that I was doing something wrong...Needless to say the DARE officer got a stern talking to about dealing with the folks with different religious beliefs, and my parents had a similar talk with me that you did with your sons...These sorts of things are ridiculous.