Amazing how insensitive people can be! I am so sorry you had to listen to that lady. Bella is almost 12 weeks and almost 3 lbs. A lady at Petsmart couldn't believe how young she was and said she thought that's how big Yorkies were full-grown. I got all defensive and launched into my tea cup speech. Wish I could say to just blow the comments off, but I couldn't when it happened to me!
Good thing we have YT to vent! I told my husband my story and he didn't even see what the big deal was!!
I can totally relate to your feelings!