Anyone that would be offended by your post is nuts! You have done everthing right, and if more people would, there wouldn't be so many dogs in rescue today!
We have a 10 year old Shi Tzu who was the PERFECT breed when our kids were small - laid back, no problems, asks for little, adjusts perfectly to YOUR lifestyle instead of the other way around. I always wanted a Yorkie but knew we had to wait until we were at a point in our life where a Yorkie would fit.
Congratulations on your new PERFECT-for-you puppy!!