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Originally Posted by miezzi  Hmmmm.....1st congrats! LOL!
2nd....pay a bill or 2! I did when I moved in with Ray! I payed the cable and the phone bills! And I always made sure there were lots and lots of groceries in the house! Don;t make a house payment for him, unless your name is on the mortgage! You are safe that way! HIS HOUSE...HIS MORTGAGE! When you get married, then it can change! Protect yourself. I have done this, as have most of my friends! It works well! That way, you are contibuting with a few bills, but just don;t make a house payment!!!!!!!!! |
I agree. Pick some bills to pay and stick with those.. cable, phone, stuff like that.. No house payment.. His house, his mortgage, HIS DEED.
I know someone who put their gf's name on the mortgage and she was all exctied.. till she learned she was not on the deed..she was just part of the debt not the END result.
Anyhow- Kristy- you're a smart cookie you'll do fine. Gotta love being the alpha dog.
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