It's good to see you posting V
I know this has been, and still is, sooo hard for you. I can ONLY IMAGINE. And I do want to say that I am so sorry that you have had people saying things about you. I did read about that and it is just sick that someone would say those things at a time like this - or at any time at all for that matter. It just ISN'T RIGHT.
I am just so sorry, but please know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers.